Nightmare at Large: October 2010

29 October 2010

stuck

I've gone through 95% of the books I got in the past 6 months or so and for some reason, I can't tell you about them. I keep opening the drafts, editing a bit, then I end up staring at the blinking cursor for the rest of the day. Maybe it's because my typing skills can't keep up with my thought process or probably that I'm trying too hard to be as erudite as possible without coming off as a know-it-all ass. The contradiction that generally rules my writing isn't helped one bit by procrastination.

28 October 2010

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The following questionnaire is based on research and experiences of socialised psychopaths. For each trait, decide if it applies to the person you suspect may be a socialised psychopath, fully (2 points), partially (1 point) or not at all (0 points).

Do they have problems sustaining stable relationships, personally and in business?

Do they frequently manipulate others to achieve selfish goals, with no consideration of the effects on those manipulated?

Are they cavalier about the truth, and capable of telling lies to your face?

Do they have an air of self-importance, regardless of their true standing in society?

Have they no apparent sense of remorse, shame or guilt?

Is their charm superficial, and capable of being switched on to suit immediate ends?

Are they easily bored and demand constant stimulation?

Are their displays of human emotion unconvincing?

Do they enjoy taking risks, and acting on reckless impulse?

Are they quick to blame others for their mistakes?

As teenagers, did they resent authority, play truant and/or steal?

Do they have no qualms about sponging off others?

Are they quick to lose their temper?

Are they sexually promiscuous?

Do they have a belligerent, bullying manner?

Are they unrealistic about their long-term aims?

Do they lack any ability to empathise with others?

Would you regard them as essentially irresponsible?

A score of 25 or above suggests strong psychopathic tendencies. This does not mean the person is a potential mass-murderer: socialised psychopaths are not mad, nor do they have to resort to violence. Even so, a close professional or emotional relationship with a socialised psychopath is likely to prove a damaging experience.

From: http://www.cix.co.uk/~klockstone/teleg.htm

27 October 2010

@sonielle

Kim turned 30 this year and to celebrate, she threw a themed party at Astoria. The theme gave this nightmare a headache for two weeks preceding the event. Legally Blonde, come in your best pink or purple outfits. I have exactly ONE pink shirt in my closet. In case you haven't noticed, I am not a pink type of nightmare. In fact, I am allergic to pink. It's probably psychosomatic but I can prove it by the appearance of rashes.

I digress. Kim's 30th birthday. I ended up in black and polka dots. The pink part was covered by the pearls. Dressing up once in a while is fun but if I had to stress out about what to wear every day or even every week, I'd go bonkers.

image from Kim

20 October 2010

mama mary

October is the month of the Holy Rosary. Being the good, Catholic girl that is this nightmare, it had completely slipped my mind until last Thursday. My dad mentioned that he would be doing a photo shoot of the Virgin Mary since he noticed an exhibit of Marian statues in HP. I guess something "struck" him so he decided to go back the next day with his camera and studio lights.

Since this nightmare's schedule is busier than a bee during spring, she decided to spend the afternoon playing photographer's assistant. Rather, the-ac-is-off-so-I-will-complain-a-lot-then-disappear-into-the-bookstore type of assistant.

I remember a conversation this nightmare had with Jam Mayer where we realized we couldn't not be Catholic because of our relationship with the Virgin Mary. We give her almost as much headaches as we give to God.

In Catholicism, there are probably as many Marys as there are saints. She unstintingly prays for everyone and everything with no conditions. She comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. This exhibit had around 50 statues that were all on loan from individuals and families; showing a very good range of the different Marys. Now I remember why Barbie sometimes reminded me of Mary.

My favorites

The Marys that are a little different from what I grew up with

All images by Edwin Celestino

19 October 2010

leather

Compiling pictures...will add whenever I find a new obsession...

image from zara.com

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09.09.17-Spring August-Gucci “Riddle” High Heel Platform Ankle Booties

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image from talkshoes.com

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16 October 2010

cough cough hint hint

1. Wuthering Heights (Penguin Classics Deluxe Edition) - No complaints if I get the entire set

image from we'll always have books

2. Starbucks stainless steel water bottle with straw

image from starbucks.com

3. Whole roasted almonds

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4. Proenza Schouler PS1

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5. Bialletti Moka Express Stovetop Espresso Maker

Bialetti Moka Express Stovetop Espresso Makers

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6. Moleskine 2011 12 month weekly notebook/planner - LARGE - THANK YOU PEACHES!

Moleskine 2011 12 Month Weekly Notebook: Black Soft Cover Large (Moleskine Srl)

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7. Nokia E63 or E52 or E71 or E72

Nokia E63-2 Unlocked Phone with 2 MP Camera, 3G, Wi-Fi, Media Player, and MicroSD Slot--U.S. Version with Warranty (Ruby Red)

Nokia E52 Metal Aluminium Business SmartPhone Unlocked Import--International Version with NoU.S. Warranty (Grey)

Nokia E71 Unlocked Phone with 3.2 MP Camera, 3G, Media Player, GPS and Free Voice Navigation, Wi-Fi, and MicroSD Slot--U.S. Version with Warranty (Gray)

Nokia E72 Unlocked Phone with GPS and Free Voice Navigation -- U.S. Version with Full Warranty (Zodium Black)

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8. Gimble

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9. Wizard of Oz shoes or Mary Janes - Miu Miu Glitter Loafer Pump or Patent Mary Jane Platform Loafers

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10. Canon Powershot G10

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11. Smashbox Cream Eyeliner Palette - PROOF

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12. Bookmarks

14 October 2010

diet

The nightmare has imposed a nightmare diet on the world. Translated: I am preoccupied with looking for pictures of shoes to bring to my cobbler. All energies have been diverted to this task until further notice.

10 October 2010

jung

I NEED this book. Note, in my world, "need" has the same definition as "want".

09 October 2010

my dream spring 2011 closet

Favorites from New York, Milan and Paris Fashion Week. Translated I would buy the entire outfit...See you again in February. Apologies for the weirdness in the layout. The HTML code refuses to cooperate.